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And this is this weeks Topic.
"Sexual relationships in high school"
-Are they good or bad in you opinion from you experience or seeing friends in this experience?-
-Personally I don't see anything wrong in high school teens sustaining sexual relationships in high school. Even though, they may get in the way of their performance in school in general from Sports to clubs and especially their performance in their school work. Many teens feel pressured in having to be in a relationship during their high school years, because well everyone usually is even if those teens had always been in a relationship during Junior high and continued into high school well that's another story.
-From friends being in relationships they've been in during school, well it just equals drama. Either the guy cheats on her, or vice versa. I can't speak for them, because I have never been the Cheat-e but the Cheat-er. That set aside my point of view on cheating could be wayy off of what yours may be. So we won't get into that. Now because I don't see anything wrong with teens being in sexual relationships in high school doesn't mean that I don't think they're bad. I'll discuss why later on. Keep reading. You might learn a thing or two.
-From discussing this with friends of mine that have long graduated and are now in the field working most of them say that it is a little too much to handle during school years in general. "Because we think that we know what world is about, we don't, and we're stupid for thinking we know a rats ass about things." And in a sense it's true, many girls that are dumped by their boyfriend or girlfriend they hold grudges when in reality come on, do you really know what love is? So sexual relationships on their point of view it’s not a good thing, because it's just drama up the wazoo, so to speak.
-Now I for one also agree with their point. I have been in many relationships during high school, and being that I dated women 90% if not 100% of the time I Was in high school teen age girls "figuring out" their orientation just go in thinking that a gay relationship is like being in a relationship with a dude, when it's not. Its two girls, thus, gay relationship. Girls are used to being able to treat the partner (this is coming from dating "straight" girls) as if they didn't really have any say in the things that they were discussing, its like "umm dude I'm a chick too and I know what being on the rag or dealing with girl drama is like." But some don't seem to get that. Most of the time they feel like they can be the control freak in the relationship because I guess to them it's as if they were with another one of their friends that are also girls when no, we are not just friends. I may be biased, but that's just me.
-In the end let me sum this up for you, No, I don't think they are necessarily a good thing but that doesn't mean that there isn't the unicorn of relationships where all of this works out like no other relationships. But from my personal experience and seeing friends experience this, I think relationships should not be taken as seriously as they do in high school. Wait a couple surer go ahead mess around "find yourself" even though you still have many more years to come that you will be able to do that. Don't worry about not being able to find a boyfriend and girlfriend right now, because when you go out to College and head out into the big world there will be sooo many people that are looking for what you're looking for.
- Moral of the story?
Simple, go out, have fun, get laid, experience your teenage years, and just have fun. Don't take Relationships too serious now; you'll have time to do that when you're older.
And that's it for this weeks topic submit ideas for next week :)
And that's it for this weeks topic submit ideas for next week :)
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